Start with your own intent.
Before you ask AI for anything, know what you are trying to say. If you do not know yet, say that.
Use AI as a mirror and drafting partner. Start with what you mean. Let it shape the draft without becoming your ghostwriter.
Handout 1
It is the sound of you not being smoothed. Specific observations. Direct statements. Honest uncertainty. Short sentences when you mean them. Long ones when the thought needs it.
Before you ask AI for anything, know what you are trying to say. If you do not know yet, say that.
Give the AI your actual thinking, your take, your uncertainty. Do not hand it a blank check.
If you are blunt, stay blunt. If you are tentative, stay tentative. Recognition matters.
After every AI draft, ask where your voice went and whether the draft got nicer than you meant.
The AI suggests. You decide. If something does not feel right, change it by hand.
Interactive tool
Fill this in before asking for a draft. The output gives AI enough of you to reflect, while setting boundaries around enthusiasm, smoothing, and reassurance.
Handout 2
You are not outsourcing your thinking. You are asking for help shaping something you already know you want to say.
Finish the sentence: I am writing this because I want to say ____ about ____ to ____. If you cannot fill it in, you are ready for a walk, a blank page, or a human conversation.
Even three rough sentences can anchor the work. Without your words, AI has nothing to reflect and plenty of room to fill the void with pleasant filler.
Do not ask for "something good." Ask for organization, clarity, restraint, or a specific tonal adjustment.
Put your original beside the AI draft. Did it improve what you meant, or change what you meant?
Handout 3
Use these in order: set terms, ask for reflection, draft with restraint, then rescue the voice if it gets lost.
You are helping me write in my own voice. My voice is [direct/reflective/formal/casual/blunt/etc.]. Do not make it smoother, more enthusiastic, or more agreeable than I am. If I am uncertain, reflect that. Do not resolve it for me. Do not write yet. First help me clarify what I am trying to say. Ask me: 1. Who is this for? 2. What do I actually want them to understand? 3. What do I want to avoid saying or implying? 4. What tone am I going for, and what tone am I not?
Reflect my intent back to me before you draft. Tell me: what is the emotional center, what might the reader need, and what boundary I should protect. Do not generate the draft yet.
Now draft using this structure: [your structure, or suggest one]. Keep it concise. Do not add encouragement, validation, or warmth I did not ask for. If I am unsure about something, say so in the draft. Do not resolve it.
This draft sounds like it was written by a helpful stranger. Revise it so it sounds like me: [restate your voice]. Remove any encouragement, warmth, or reassurance I did not ask for. Make it more direct. Keep the rough edges I put in.
Voice drift quiz
Pick what you notice. The meter is not a grade. It is a reflection aid based on your selections, not a validated score or an AI detector.
Handout 4
The preserved versions are not harsher for sport. They are clearer because the writer says what they actually mean.
Handout 5
Read it once as yourself. Read it once for smooth. Then fix what feels off before it leaves your hands.
| What you notice | How to fix it |
|---|---|
| Too generic | Replace the generic phrase with one specific thing you actually mean. |
| Too enthusiastic | Lower the energy. Remove exclamation marks, encouragement, and validation. |
| Too hedged | Say the thing directly. Remove padding before the thought. |
| Too smooth | Put a rough edge back in. Use a short sentence. Say the blunt thing. |
| Too long | Cut everything that does not say what you mean. Keep the thought. Lose the padding. |
If you read this a year from now, would you recognize it as something you wrote?